If you've ever found yourself or a loved one sitting in an emergency department waiting room for hours on end during a mental health crisis, you're not alone. The reality is pretty sobering: some Australian hospitals are seeing mental health patients wait over 13 hours for care, with about one in three children waiting at least 12 hours, and more than one in eight waiting beyond 24 hours.
That's not just a statistic – that's families sitting on uncomfortable chairs, worried sick, wondering if they made the right choice. It's adults questioning whether their mental health crisis is "serious enough" to justify the endless wait. And frankly, it's a system that's letting people down when they need support most.
But here's the thing: you don't have to feel powerless in this situation. While we can't fix the system overnight, there are practical ways to navigate these challenges and find the mental health support you need.
Why Are Mental Health ED Wait Times So Brutal?
Before we dive into solutions, let's talk about why this is happening. Understanding the problem helps you make better decisions about your care.
The main culprit is something called "boarding" – when psychiatric patients get stuck in emergency departments because there aren't enough psychiatric beds available. The Joint Commission (the folks who set healthcare standards) recommend that boarding shouldn't exceed 4 hours. Reality? Some people are waiting six times that long.

It's not that emergency departments don't care – they're dealing with:
- Limited psychiatric beds in hospitals
- Shortage of mental health professionals
- Insurance issues that complicate admissions
- Complex assessment processes
- Higher demand for mental health services than ever before
This perfect storm means that even when you're in crisis, the system struggles to respond quickly.
5 Steps to Navigate the Wait (And Protect Your Wellbeing)
Step 1: Know Before You Go
Before heading to the ED, ask yourself: "Is this an emergency or a crisis?" If you're having thoughts of suicide or self-harm, or you're experiencing psychosis, that's absolutely an emergency – go to the ED. But if you're struggling with severe anxiety, depression, or other mental health challenges that aren't immediately life-threatening, there might be faster options.
Call ahead to the hospital and ask about current wait times for mental health patients. Some hospitals now provide estimated wait times online or over the phone. It's not perfect, but it gives you a heads up.
Step 2: Come Prepared for the Long Haul
If you do need to go to the ED, prepare like you're going on a very boring, very stressful camping trip:
- Bring comfort items: A soft blanket, favorite pillow, or stress ball
- Pack snacks and water: Hospital vending machines get expensive quickly
- Charge your devices: Bring portable chargers for phones and tablets
- Bring entertainment: Books, downloaded movies, or music with headphones
- Have your support person ready: Someone who can advocate for you if needed
Step 3: Understand the Triage Process
Mental health triage in EDs can feel confusing and frustrating. Here's what's typically happening:
You'll likely be assessed multiple times by different staff members. This isn't inefficiency – it's safety. Each assessment helps determine the urgency of your situation and the best course of treatment.
Be honest about your symptoms, even if they seem minor. Mental health professionals are trained to pick up on subtle signs that might indicate you need immediate attention.

Step 4: Advocate for Your Needs
Don't suffer in silence during long waits. If your mental state is deteriorating while waiting:
- Let the nursing staff know immediately
- Ask for regular check-ins with a mental health professional
- Request information about your estimated wait time
- Ask about comfort measures available (quiet spaces, chaplain services, etc.)
Remember: you have the right to respectful, timely care. While wait times are frustratingly long, healthcare staff should still be providing regular assessment and support.
Step 5: Plan Your Post-ED Care
Even if you get great care in the ED, the goal is usually to stabilise you and connect you with ongoing support. Before you leave:
- Get clear discharge instructions
- Ask for referrals to local mental health services
- Understand your medication instructions completely
- Schedule follow-up appointments before leaving
- Make sure you have a safety plan for the next few days
Smart Alternatives That Actually Work
Sometimes the ED isn't your best option. Here are alternatives that might get you help faster:
Crisis Lines and Text Services
- Lifeline: 13 11 14 (available 24/7)
- Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 (for young people up to 25)
- Crisis Text Line: Text 0477 13 11 14
These services can provide immediate support and might direct you to faster mental health resources than an ED visit.
Telepsychiatry Services
Some services now offer 24/7 access to psychiatrists and mental health nurse practitioners through video calls. While not suitable for every situation, telepsychiatry can be incredibly effective for many mental health crises and is often much faster than ED visits.
Community Mental Health Services
Many areas have after-hours community mental health crisis teams. These teams can often see you more quickly than an ED and are specifically trained in mental health care.
Your GP or Local Medical Centre
If it's during business hours and you're not in immediate danger, your GP might be able to see you urgently or connect you with local mental health services quickly.

When You Absolutely Need the Emergency Department
Don't let long wait times prevent you from seeking emergency care when you truly need it. Go to the ED immediately if you're experiencing:
- Thoughts of suicide or self-harm
- Psychosis (hearing voices, seeing things that aren't there)
- Severe agitation or aggression
- Complete inability to function or care for yourself
- Adverse reactions to psychiatric medications
In these situations, the wait is worth it. Your safety comes first, always.
Making the System Work Better for Everyone
While you're dealing with your immediate needs, it's worth knowing that changes are happening. Hospitals are increasingly implementing:
- Dedicated mental health units within emergency departments
- Faster triage processes for mental health patients
- Better integration with community mental health services
- Improved staff training for mental health emergencies
Supporting organisations that advocate for mental health reform and sharing your experiences (when you're ready) can help push for continued improvements.
The Bottom Line
Navigating mental health care in Australia shouldn't be this hard, but until the system improves, you need to be prepared and informed. Remember that seeking help is always the right choice, even when the system makes it difficult.
Whether you end up in an ED waiting room for hours or find alternative support, you're taking a brave and important step. Mental health challenges are real health challenges, and you deserve timely, compassionate care.
If you're supporting someone through this process, your presence and advocacy matter enormously. Sometimes just knowing someone cares enough to sit with you for hours makes all the difference.
For ongoing mental health support that doesn't require emergency department visits, consider connecting with services like those offered through Psychology NSW, where you can access regular therapeutic support to help prevent mental health crises before they become emergencies.
The system isn't perfect, but you're not powerless. With the right strategies and support, you can navigate these challenges and get the care you need.